February
The Month of the Holy Family
As we end this ‘Month of the Holy Family’, what pearl of truth should we take with us on our journey? In Stewardship we talk about gifts and the nurturing of those gifts. What about ‘family’correlates to this concept? Pope Benedict XVI put it this way:
Parents "are not the friends, nor the masters of their children's lives, but guardians of this incomparable gift from God". Wow! We aren’t the owners of our children? No, we are the guardians of these precious gifts from God. We are their teachers, their cheerleaders, their consolers, their first catechists, and their role models. So, how do we prepare them for the role for which God created them? It isn’t easy. Even Mary and Joseph suffered the anxieties that we all have about the well-being of our children. Think of the time Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem, at the Temple, and was missing for three days. When they found him, Mary said, “Son, why have You treated us this way? Behold, Your father and I have been anxiously looking for You.” Luke 2:47
Inspite of all the parenting anxieties that assail us, perhaps what we take with us from this month of the Holy Family is to remember that our children belong to God first. They, like ourselves, will one day return to Him. Our duty is to raise them according to God’s will and Mary and Joseph are our role models; loving and good parents, guiding and protecting their precious gift, and ultimately setting Him free to fulfill God’s purpose for Him on earth. Exactly the process of living out Stewardship as set forth in the Pastoral Letter – receive gratefully, nurture responsibly, share lovingly, return to the Lord. Let us pray always, that God gives us the wisdom to be good guardians of our children, so that we work with Him to create hearts and souls willing and able to help build up His Kingdom.
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